So it is official. I decided to give on-line dating a try. I personally was a bit hesitant as I felt it was desperate and for those who have issues in meeting someone in the traditional dating arena. I never had issues of meeting gents and getting into relationships. However, from numerous stories of fellow divorcees who have had luck in a second try with marriage, they all met their mate via on-line dating. The biggest notion is that there is a filtering process. Therefore, the people that are interested in meeting you on-line are aware of your status, children and etc. Basically, before wasting time with face-to-face dates you can narrow down potential gents based on their intentions, common interests and where they are in their life. So the risk of wasted time in dating someone for months despite the off-timing and different wants and needs in a relationship is significantly reduced.
I hope to post updates on how the process is working. I will say it does look promising. Within the last 20 minutes of signing up I have had four gents reach out that seem “per their profile” have similar interests and are in a similar place as myself. The sharing of questions so far is at least entertaining.
Now don’t get me wrong, I have not given up on traditional dating and meeting someone. But what is there to lose? For a professional woman with children and other hobbies, it is difficult to find time in getting to know someone. Why not attempt it via computer? So hello e-harmony I have finally been sucked in to online dating!
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