These Heauxs Ain’t Loyal! Really?

There is much discussion on R&B/ Pop singer Chris Brown’s popular song “These Hoes Ain’t Loyal! Many men praise the song and women scowl at the chorus.  Chris Brown’s catchy song basically insinuates that a woman would leave a broke man for a rich man who wants her as depicted in the video below.

Warning: Explicit language


Matter-of-fact Pastor Jamal Bryant of Empowerment Temple in Baltimore, Maryland is being criticized by using the phrase “These Hoes Ain’t Loyal” in part of his sermon this past Sunday.

Now the Pastor put a different spin on this song. In his sermon he said the following as quoted on

An anointed woman of God is not dreaming about a man. An anointed woman of God is dreaming for her man. So when she really connects to who you are, she begins to dream about what she sees you accomplishing, what she sees you becoming and you with your silly stuff, go run off with a side-chick who don’t have no anointing.

The problem with Pilate, is a problem with a lot of men, is he didn’t know what he had. Had Pilate had listened to the woman he had, his life would’ve been better. Because he didn’t listen to the woman of God, he ended up losing his job, ended up in exile, ended up being kicked out of the palace, ended up committing suicide. If you got enough confidence to not be insecure and threatened about the woman God sent you, when she speaks, she is speaking from the voice of God of what she sees over your life!

Every sister just elbowed another sister, “he should’ve listened!” Every brother, would you tap another brother and say, “I should’ve listened to her.” God help me! Old saints, y’all forgive me but I gotta tell ya, these hoes ain’t loyal! You gotta find somebody!

Pilate lives in conflict because he washes his hands and then signs the death certificate. He could’ve put a curve on the whole movement of women’s suffrage. Women could’ve got the right to vote earlier They could’ve had the right to own property sooner if he in that right moment would’ve listened to what the woman of God spoke over his life, trying to help him. It was no benefit for her. She just wanted to see him in his rightful place with God!

You done found the right one when they are not into your car, your clothes or your income, but they got a desire to see you in the will of God. That’s how you know you’ve found somebody who’s anointed!

Read more: Necole Pastor Responds To Criticism After Quoting Chris Brown’s ‘These Hoes Ain’t Loyal’

My Insights!

A real woman is down for her man. She believes in the man you are at present and destined to be. She has faith in your potential and will be there through the good and bad.

With one caveat….you have to appreciate her and her potential and strive to be the best man for yourself and her. Reciprocate that love she has for you.

Why would a woman move on and question her loyalty to her man?

1) The man is not claiming her as his woman. There is ambiguity in her title. Thus, she has every right to keep fishing…until an exclusive relationship is established.

2)The man has the mindset that it is mandatory of having a “Main Chick” and a “Side Chick” or two to satisfy his needs from women. Well she deserves better. So if she finds better, it is not about disloyalty, it is about acknowledging her worth and moving on.

3) The man is not striving to be the best guy that he can be for himself or her. This is not about her not enduring  the “down on your luck” occurrences. But you having the lack of self-esteem of not believing in yourself to pull up from life’s battles. You are wallowing in your own misery and not attempting to find a way out of your crisis. If you are not being the man that she can count on because you are unable or do not have the desire to mange the cards that life deals, how can you support and be the man she needs in your life.

These Heauxs Ain’t Loyal! This song may apply for some misguided women who have ill intentions. But the true-hearted ladies that do not tolerate B.S. just know their self-worth! They are leaving a “Broke” man in terms of his attitude and the way he treats a woman for a man who is “Rich” in character and has respect and knows how to treat his woman.


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