Category Archives: Co-Parenting Life

Future Peeved: Ciara And Son Spend Time With SeaHawks QB Russell Wilson. My Insights!

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This topic of rapper Future upset with singer Ciara spending time with son with new beau NFL quarterback Russell Wilson and pictures available for the media to see  has been heavily debated today. Many are in favor of Ciara moving on to a more positive role model beau Russell and he being a part of Ciara and her son’s life.

My Insights!

From a divorcee with two children who has an amicable co-parenting relationship, where the father is a large part in the children’s lives: It is important that once a relationship reaches a certain stage that you introduce and allow your significant other to be a part of the relationship with your children. Continue reading Future Peeved: Ciara And Son Spend Time With SeaHawks QB Russell Wilson. My Insights!

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Kevin Hart Discusses His Ex-Wife Torrei and Fiancee Eniko Now Amicable Relationship!

To promote the new movie “The Wedding Ringer”  actor/comedian Kevin Hart spoke with New York’s Power 105 radio statiomm The Breakfast Club,  and discussed the status of the relationship between his ex-wife Torrei Hart and   fiancée Eniko Parrish. According to Kevin the relationship between the two is amicable and is an improvement from the lack of communication between the two. Basically, Torrei initiated the peaceful relationship. Kevin discusses the exchange, the previous status of the relationship between the two women, Torrei attending his wedding, his current relationship with his ex-wife Torrei and timing of his proposal to Eniko on the same day of the premiere of Atlanta Exes.

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Can’t Waste My Breath!

I can’t waste my breath on recurring themes in my life hoping for a different outcome.

My words fall on death ears…..first it is polite favors, turns to negotiations, then a debate to a full blown disagreement…. Anger and frustration rises.

Certain ways of people will never change. I can scream through the roof….but it is transparent.

That favor of being more accommodating, taking initiative, understanding my needs, my children…… you will never fully comprehend.

The transparency is apparent from the last time my request ended with the same outcome.

Yet you wonder why I was in search for a way out. Why I could not deal with your lack of regard of “ME” or “US” or “THEM”.

Vain, selfish ways do not deserve unconditional love. And as you see it dissipated….you stand alone.

I stand alone, with a weight off my shoulder. There are challenges and unknowns….but a gain of a full appreciation of ME!

I can’t waste my breath any longer!

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It’s About the Kids! Alicia Keys Discusses Her Now Amicable Relationship With Hubby Swizz Beatz Ex-Wife

The singer Alicia Keys promotes her new children’s book “Blue Moon: From the Journals of Mama Mae and LeeLee” on the Wendy Williams show. During her interview with Wendy Williams, Alicia Keys talked about her pregnancy and her relationship with husband Swizz Beats and her relationship with his ex-wife Mashonda Tifrere. Alicia Keys and Swizz Beats have been together for 5 years. Continue reading It’s About the Kids! Alicia Keys Discusses Her Now Amicable Relationship With Hubby Swizz Beatz Ex-Wife

How Much Of Your Happiness Should You Compromise For The Sake Of Maintaining A Healthy Co-Parenting Relationship

This  is a question I have eternally struggled with on more than one occasion. There is a struggle between maintaining a healthy co-parenting relationship for your children’s sake and attaining your own happiness as a single woman with aspirations of finding a second chance in love.

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My Narcissistic Ex-Husband Series #1-The 4 Most Common Struggles When Forced To Co-Parent With a Narcissist

Please review this article from “First Wives World”. I have collaborated with the creators of this website to co-promote and share articles. For the original article and more articles from “First Wives World” please visit website at:  https://www.firstwivesworld.com/index.php/my-narcissistic-ex-husband/item/8508-the-4-most-common-struggles-when-forced-to-co-parent-with-a-narcissist Continue reading My Narcissistic Ex-Husband Series #1-The 4 Most Common Struggles When Forced To Co-Parent With a Narcissist

Kids Post-Divorce- Routine and Communication Is Imperative!

I will not say that my divorce did not have any impact on my sprouts lives. I notice my son is at times more quiet than usual.  He has had to step up and be the man around the house in his father’s absence. My daughter well she is just too young to notice any difference, except that mommy and daddy have two different places to live, and wonders if she is going to daddy’s house or mommy’s house this weekend. I will say that she is quick to call out for daddy when she does not get her way. But I think being Daddy’s Little Girl and spoiled, her behavior would still be the same despite her parent’s status. Continue reading Kids Post-Divorce- Routine and Communication Is Imperative!

I Own Up To My Actions!

My previous post yesterday  ruffled a few feathers on the family front.  I own up to my actions and as a blogger that has chosen to share my experiences and insights on relationships I share the positive and negative. Sometimes people don’t realize how insensitive they can be until  the scenario is written and read by them. Continue reading I Own Up To My Actions!

Just One Of Those Days- The 4th of July Weekend Child Custody Battle!

Now I advocate fostering a positive co-parenting relationship. For the most part I get it right. But there are times I become completely frustrated. The battle of managing our parenting with our newly “fabulous” single lives. Continue reading Just One Of Those Days- The 4th of July Weekend Child Custody Battle!

Co-Parenting Frustrations: My Mouth Gets Me In Trouble Every Time! I Am Not Perfect! Negativity Is Ineffective!

 

So I am always blogging about the attributes to a quality relationship, what qualities you should seek in a mate,  can you be with a man that is “damaged goods”, my perception of myself as the “Ride or Die” chick….you begin to think Wow! Her husband was crazy to let her walk out of their marriage union. Maybe he was like Good Riddance! (Well not really…that is our secret). Continue reading Co-Parenting Frustrations: My Mouth Gets Me In Trouble Every Time! I Am Not Perfect! Negativity Is Ineffective!