Category Archives: Divorce Process Hurdles

10 Signs It Might Be Time For Divorce!

Thought I share this article from Huffington Post! Enjoy!

Knowing when to divorce can be difficult, and it’s a decision that shouldn’t be taken lightly. So how do you know if you should proceed? How can you be sure that this time is really it? That this time there’s no turning back? Continue reading 10 Signs It Might Be Time For Divorce!

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10 things I wish I’d known before getting divorced

This morning I read this forthright article posted on NBC Today in the Health section which I found from HuffPostDivorce. A divorce mediator tells of her 10 things she was not prepared for in her own divorce which resonates not only with me but other divorcees. Continue reading 10 things I wish I’d known before getting divorced

10 Things I’ve Learned From Partying With Divorcées in Their 40s

To the point humor in concise form to my fellow divorcees!

Thought Catalog

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1. You share the same appreciation for great music.

When you mess up the lyrics to “Roxanne” during karaoke, they got your back.

2. They have kids your age.

They don’t want you anywhere near their kids because you’re either the bad influence, or you’ll tell them how bad of an influence their parents are.

3. Your parents are their age.

Same principle.

4. They regret settling down so young.

They were around your age, actually.

5. Just like you, they, too, picture themselves leaving with the hot 25-year-old bartender.

Just look at him.

6. You’re never too old to sneak in alcohol.

They’re just better at hiding their flasks than you are. They also claim to have coined the term “BYOB.”

7. Alcohol bridges age gaps.

Gracìas, Señor Cuervo! (Or is that Señior Cuervo?)

8. Unlike your generation, they didn’t post all the stupid shit they did on the…

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Summer Endings Lead To New Fall Beginnings!

Summer is my favorite season. Sun-bathing, beach-time, brunching and  enjoying the sun-rays. Everyone is out and about in their summer whites and brights. Splash time with the sprouts. However, Fall is where I tend to be more focused. I think it is just the Back-to-school mentality that is engrained in my brain from my many years in school. Continue reading Summer Endings Lead To New Fall Beginnings!

10 Quirky and Intriguing Divorce Facts! My Insights!

Thought I share some interest facts on divorce that I came across through my research on divorce. Enjoy!facts-about-divorce-1026181155-jul-24-2012-600x398

FACT #1 There are 100 divorces every hour in the U.S.

Insights! The statistics on the frequency and impacts of divorce is intriguing. For additional statistics Check Out Post: Untying The Knot! Divorce Facts! Continue reading 10 Quirky and Intriguing Divorce Facts! My Insights!

I Am A Product Of “The Divorce Generation”!

The “Divorce Generation” is referencing Generation X born between 1965 and 1980. A 2011 article in the Wall Street Journal: “The Divorce Generation” discusses the impacts of being raised in a time where if you were not a product from a divorced family, you had a very dear friend that was. The question asked to our generation, as opposed to my parents are “When Did Your Parents Get Divorced?”as opposed to “Where Were You During D-Day?” or “When Kennedy Was Shot or Nixon Resigned?”. Continue reading I Am A Product Of “The Divorce Generation”!

The Divorce Decision!

I Want Our Children To Be Raised In A Two-Parent Household!

I Do Not Want To Be Considered A Failure!

What Is Wrong With Me or Us?

Why Can’t We Just Be Happy?

Should I Sacrifice My personal wants and desires for the sake of family?

Where Did The Love Go?

Continue reading The Divorce Decision!

Refreshed, Renewed and Refocused!

I am fresh from vacation and back on my blog grind. I immensely enjoyed my selfie vacay as well as my family vacay with my little sprouts. It is a wonderful feeling when your mind is clear and you are re-energized to focus and dedicate your life to your priorities. Continue reading Refreshed, Renewed and Refocused!

“Ride or Die” Chick! A Divorcee Perspective

The increasingly pervasive phrase which origined from hip hop culture is now the gold standard of what a gent expects from a lady. “Ride or Die” generally means having your man’s support through

Continue reading “Ride or Die” Chick! A Divorcee Perspective

Is Divorce Affecting My Health? Coping With Stress And Attaining Your Zen!

I have been ill this past month, suffering with bouts of colds, flue and throat infections. Largely to blame on New York metro’s extended harsh winter with teasers of sprinkled warm days. Coupled with an uptick in work demands and the everyday chronicles of the co- Continue reading Is Divorce Affecting My Health? Coping With Stress And Attaining Your Zen!