Tag Archives: Separation

10 Signs You Are MADLY, Crazily Obsessing Over Him (And How To Stop)

Great post on YourTango.com For those fellow lurkers of past love interests:
You probably are, if you clicked this piece.

“Imagination is more important than knowledge,” said Albert Einstein.

But when you’re getting over someone, imagination has a way of becoming knowledge, as in what you imagine is often the entire breadth of what you know about them. It’s hard to say goodbye, especially when you thought you knew someone so well and your relationship seemed to mean so much.  Continue reading 10 Signs You Are MADLY, Crazily Obsessing Over Him (And How To Stop)

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10 Signs It Might Be Time For Divorce!

Thought I share this article from Huffington Post! Enjoy!

Knowing when to divorce can be difficult, and it’s a decision that shouldn’t be taken lightly. So how do you know if you should proceed? How can you be sure that this time is really it? That this time there’s no turning back? Continue reading 10 Signs It Might Be Time For Divorce!

17 Signs You’re An Option, NOT A Priority

This is an article shared from YourTango.com. Know the Signs! Take A Step Back and Look At the Situation 5,000 Feet From Above.
We hate to break it to you, but…

Continue reading 17 Signs You’re An Option, NOT A Priority

Ben and Jen Banana Split- After 10 Years of Marriage! My Insights!

Actor and Director, Ben Affleck (42) and Actress Jennifer Garner (43) are getting a divorce after their 10 year marriage union. They have 2 daughters and one son together. Together they announced this public statement: Continue reading Ben and Jen Banana Split- After 10 Years of Marriage! My Insights!

10 things I wish I’d known before getting divorced

This morning I read this forthright article posted on NBC Today in the Health section which I found from HuffPostDivorce. A divorce mediator tells of her 10 things she was not prepared for in her own divorce which resonates not only with me but other divorcees. Continue reading 10 things I wish I’d known before getting divorced

13 Heartbreaking Things Divorce REALLY Takes From You

I thought this was a wonderful article written by Christie G. on YourTango.com in discussing the aspects of life that divorce takes from you. I thought I would share.

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Keep It Classy! Break-ups Aren’t Easy!

Your heart feels hollow! It was once filled with promise of reciprocity: love, friendship, trust and intimacy. You just vested your time, heart and everything you had in this person. Your hopes of possibly having a “happily ever after” did not manifest. Sadness runs through your body. Your emotions run wild. Was these feelings you had based on real happenings or was it all staged to captivate your heart and watch it shatter in a thousand pieces? Was it something you did wrong or quality that you lacked? Or was it just timing? Maybe your canvas of a relationship did not match your partner’s. Maybe he found it in another.

Despite the demise of a relationship, the outcome of how it ends is controlled by you. Hone in all of those emotions, be it hate, sorrow, or relief. If you felt that you were double-crossed by someone you trusted or angry that the outcome just did not go your way, do not seek revenge. Get your head out of the past. Good Riddance! There is no need to seek for your ex-partner to feel the type of hurt your feeling internally.

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No need to defame your mate’s character via social media or any public setting, resort to physical or verbal abuse, or even cold silence if your ex- is reaching out. Aim to keep it a peaceful parting. Continue reading Keep It Classy! Break-ups Aren’t Easy!

My Narcissistic Ex- Husband Series #2: There’s Nothing Average About Divorce From A Narcissist

Please review this article from “First Wives World”. I have collaborated with the creators of this website to co-promote and share articles. For the original article and more articles from “First Wives World” please visit website at:  https://www.firstwivesworld.com/index.php/my-narcissistic-ex-husband/item/8729-there%E2%80%99s-nothing-average-about-divorce-from-a-narcissist

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There is a difference between bashing the ex and speaking the truth.

There is a difference between overlooking wrongs and allowing abuse.

There is a difference between being understanding and being co-dependent.

There is a difference between trusting and being manipulated. Continue reading My Narcissistic Ex- Husband Series #2: There’s Nothing Average About Divorce From A Narcissist

Nominated for 2014 Black Weblog Awards! Please Vote and Support!

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I have been nominated for the 2014 Black Weblog Awards! Over the past year I have really enjoyed blogging and sharing my experiences in my process of becoming a “Happily Divorcee”. If my blogs have resonated with you personally or just enjoyed being entertained by my colorful stories and opinions.  Please support and vote for my blog.  Voting ends tomorrow on 10/14/2014!!! I really need your support!

When voting select: HappilyDivorcedandAfter at www.blackweblogawards.com

I have been nominated for the following categories:

“Best Blog Post Series”

“Best Writing In A Blog” and

“Best Sex or Relationship Blog”

Thank You In Advance For Your Support and Continued Thanks For Your Support and Continue To Read My Blog!!!

I’m Sorry, But You’re Just Not The Man I Hoped You Would Become When We Got Married

I wanted to share this article from The Onion:

http://www.theonion.com/articles/im-sorry-but-youre-just-not-the-man-i-hoped-you-wo,37061/

This article resonated with me as this is a persistent issue in unhappy marriages. The idealism of what you envision of your prospective husband and prospective wife, and how your spouse does not meet your expectations. This is a note from a wife who has lost hope and realize that her husband will never own up to the man she had hoped. Enjoy! Continue reading I’m Sorry, But You’re Just Not The Man I Hoped You Would Become When We Got Married